YOU HEAR, O LORD, THE DESIRE OF THE AFFLICTED

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The Lord sets His face against the proud, but He is for the humble, the outcast, the afflicted. I’ve seen it again and again. This is my just born granddaughter, Sadie. She is a gift of God to my daughter Sally and her husband Phil. She was a much prayed for baby. (Many of you know Sally through her Aslan painting which you can see through this link: http://www.deebrestin.com/products/aslan-posters-prints/ Sally was led to paint Aslan because she wanted to try to get an answer to why a good God allowed so much suffering. He did give her a surprising answer.

Often we don’t know why He allows suffering, and we are called to accept the mystery of suffering, but we do know God is good.

We also know, according to the psalms we will be studying this week, that “He hears the desire of the afflicted; He encourages them, and listens to their cry.” That is the next lovely song on the CD that goes with A Woman of Worship. Sally and Phil cried out to the Lord during their three years of infertility. Sally had resolved that if God never gave her the desire of her heart, she would trust Him. But in this case He said, “Yes.” Sally and Phil are filled with gratitude. Sadie was rushed to intensive care because Sally had an infection and a fever — but all is fine now. She came home Saturday night and Phil celebrated his first Father’s Day with great joy. Sally is overwhelmed with emotion — saying things like, “This is the most amazing experience of my life. I can see how motherhood is going to keep me on my knees. Sadie is going to be my little buddy everywhere I go! I appreciate you so much more Mom — how you love me. I have soooo many emotions of joy, love, gratitude, and —oh!”

Many of you have read The God of All Comfort, or even worked through it on this blog — and you know that God often allows suffering, and we must accept that mystery. But it is important to know that when He allows suffering, it isn’t because He doesn’t care or doesn’t hear. We are going to be meditating on some passages this week that demonstrate that. Let your roots sink deeply into this truth, into the living water that will nourish your parched soul and reassure you of His love.

Take a question or two a day. Meditate. Memorize the song or, if you don’t have it, the verse the song is based on, which is Psalm 10:17. Sink your roots deep into His Word.

1. Use Psalm 9:1-2 as a way to begin your time of worship. List a few of His wonders here. Sing praise to His name, either using the song on the worship CD or another. Worship shapes you — remember — you become like what you give worth to.

2. Meditate on Psalm 9:9-10. Find three truths about the Lord to remember in times of trouble.

3. Psalm 10 is a classic psalm of lament. The following passages show the progression. Describe what you find:

A. What is David’s opening lament in verse 1? What is troubling him according to verses 2-9? Have you ever felt this way?

B. Describe David’s turn in Psalm 10:12-14. What does he remember about God?

C. Meditate on Psalm 10:17-18 and list what you learn about the Lord and your contemplations.

3. How have you seen the truths of Psalms 9 and 10 in your life? How will you apply them to your life right now?

4. Read all of Psalm 34. This psalm is filled with beautiful word pictures. Tap into your right brain as you look at them. If you were to paint them, what might you paint to depict each of the following?

A. Psalm 34:5

B. Psalm 34:6

C. Psalm 34:7

D. Psalm 34:8-10

5. Peter quotes Psalm 34:12-15 when he is addressing believers facing persecution. When others are unkind to us, persecute us, or speak evil against us, how should we respond? How might you apply this to your life?

6. The promise you are memorizing from the song (Psalm 10:17) is repeated in other words in Psalm 34:15 and Psalm 34:17-18. What new insight do these passages give you?

7. It is important to put Scripture in the context of the whole Scripture. Psalm 34 standing alone could lead us to believe the righteous won’t suffer, or at least, will have any suffering removed fairly quickly. Yet the whole of Scripture teaches that God’s rescue might look quite different than we imagine. The disciples surely didn’t expect Jesus to be crucified. My daughter Sally has suffered so much in the last fifteen years of her life — so her rescue wasn’t fast, and there may be more suffering ahead. But I am seeing a character in her that has emerged through the fire. I’d like each of you to reflect on this in your own life.

A. How has suffering in your life resulted in perhaps a “different kind of rescue?”

B. What have you learned? How will this help you when you face suffering the next time?

THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS

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Psalm 1 is the Psalter in a nutshell

Though I am a bit uncomfortable using artists’ renditions of Jesus, for I know that no one can capture Him, I’m using this one to turn the light on about something extremely important about Psalm 1, which is the psalter in a nutshell. It tells us the secret of happiness lies in how we treat and respond to the law, or the Word. But does this just mean the commands of God? Psalm 119, the longest psalm, could be called an expanded version of Psalm 1. Here the psalmist seems to be worshiping God’s law. “I lift up my hands to thy Word.” Is he worshiping the Bible? No. If you look deeply, you will see that the Word is Jesus. The law is Jesus. The Bible, in essence, is Jesus. When we immerse ourselves in His Word, when we choose to walk in the light of His way, we are walking with Him, we are keeping the way pure between ourselves and Him, we are sinking our roots down — not into our circumstances, but into God Himself. And this is the secret of happiness in the sweet times and in the wilderness times.

If you pursue happiness, you will get neither righteousness nor happiness. But if you pursue righteousness, as Psalm 1 shows us how to do, you will get happiness thrown in.

I am so thankful for each woman participating on this blog. You bring your unique styles and strengths — and I see you helping one another through modeling, caring, and contemplating. Some of you are better at truly reading the questions and answering them, and I long to see each of you endeavor to do that with this week’s lesson. I love you and am praying for each of you as you contemplate and respond. Psalm 1 is so familiar it is easy to miss its blessing — so slow down, ask the Lord for a fresh vision, and when you see, respond in obedience. You will experience a deep happiness. The word “blessed” implies the deepest happiness — a joy despite circumstances, a satisfaction in being loved, and a fulfillment in finding meaning. That happens when you understand and respond to Jesus — so there is nothing between you and Him. Can you imagine, for example, what would happen to your soul today if when you are tempted to lie or gossip or be lazy you instead chose to put your roots deep into Jesus? Can you even imagine the joy that would begin to slowly well up in you, filling you to overflowing?

Each day, read psalm 1, asking the Lord to give you fresh insight. Each day, if you have it, listen to this psalm on the worship CD with A Woman of Worship.

1. Read Psalm 1 as an overview. Using your right brain, picture the contrasting images of a tree planted by the water, and the chaff, or the tumbling tumbleweed blowing in the wind. They contrast two ways of life.

A. Though some might see the chaff as being “freer” than the tree, what is miserable about being chaff?

B.  Meditate on the image of the tree planted by the living water. Why would this person be able to experience life and joy even in when the circumstances of life are dry and difficult?

C. Find a translation or paraphrase of Psalm 1:3-4 that brings these two pictures alive for you. Type it out here and describe why it ministers to you.

2. Listen, if you have it, to the musical rendition of Psalm 1 on the worship CD.  What insight does this calypso beat and rendition give you? (If you don’t have this, might you have another rendition to recommend?)

3. Meditate on Psalm 1:1-2.

A. Who is the person who is blessed, or the person who experiences the deepest happiness? What does he not do? What does he do?

B. What are some ways you could delight in the Word better, could contemplate better, could sink your roots down deeper?

3. It is one thing to know in our hearts what is right and quite another to respond to it. I know God hates lies and deceptions, yet I am still tempted to make myself look better to someone with an exaggeration or deception. I also know God wants me to enjoy food, but in moderation. Yet I am still tempted to eat past being satisfied. The idols of my heart in those situations are approval and comfort. Is that who I want as my gods? If I choose them, I will be as miserable as the chaff. But if instead, I choose to allow Jesus to usurp those deceptive gods, I may feel a momentary loss, but then I will feel joy welling up. Let’s share our daily successes and failures here, pray for each other, and sink our roots deep into Him. (This is a question you can answer every day if you choose.)

HOW WE CHANGE

worshipWorship comes from an old English word “worth-shape.” In other words, whatever we worship shapes us. Every single one of us struggles with idols of the heart. Idols cannot be destroyed, but they can be replaced. May the Lord replace our longing for human approval, or junk food, or control with Himself. The psalms will lead us to worship Christ, and in worshiping Him, we will find, to our amazement, our idols will be pushed off the throne, and we will find that we are shaped by Him, changed, conformed not to the ugly idols of this world, but to His image. We become beautiful, like Him. Filled with peace, joy, self-control, wisdom, and love.

This week we’ll be looking at an overview of some psalms that help us worship Christ and we’ll use what has become one of the favorite praise songs of this generation to help us worship as well: Shout to the Lord. It’s the first song on the CD in A Woman of Worship. It has a Spanish chorus in it as well, which I love for it helps me remember His Bride is from every tribe and nation, worshiping Him throughout the earth.

If you are just beginning with us, I suggest you take a question or two a day — respond to other people as you feel led, and be creative with your worship. Use the internet to find different versions of Shout to the Lord or Bible translations. Download a great sermon or worship music and walk outside. Let’s not just study worship — let’s do it. Then from the overflow of our hearts, we can strengthen one another.

Lord, I lift up each sojourner who is desirous of studying the psalms. I pray you would quicken her (or him!) and draw her to you. Give us hearts to worship you. I ask this in the name of the only One worthy of worship.

Start memorizing Shout to the Lord.

1. What old English word is the word worship derived from? What does this say to you?

2. My Jesus, My Savior implies a sweet intimate relationship with the Lord. How do you see that the psalmist had this in:

A. Psalm 116:1-2

B. Psalm 8:3-4

C. Share a time from the recent past when you were aware that the Lord was personally mindful of you.

2. Lord, There is None Like You

3. Meditate on Psalm 22 in which David describes a terrible time of suffering. Yet behind David is Christ, for this is a clear Messianic psalm. Find descriptions of what Jesus endured for you. Praise Him for this. Use music, if there is a song or hymn that helps you, share it.

My Comfort, My Shelter

Continue learning and singing Shout to the Lord

4. Describe the emotions of the psalmist in Psalm 18:1-6. Give references with your answer.

Eugine Peterson says often our prayers are “cut flower prayers,” lacking the passion we see in the psalms. They lack the passion we see in the psalms. What brings passion into our lives? I have found that it often comes through suffering — when we have to turn to the Lord and do so, with the kind of passion we see in Psalm 18. When, in time, we find He rescues us (though the rescue may be quite different than anticipated) we are filled with gratitude and again, our prayers have passion. Share one time when the Lord was “your comfort, your shelter.”

Mountains Bow Down and The Seas Will Road

5. Meditate on Psalm 18:7-19 and describe the images of God coming to the rescue.

Forever I’ll Stand

SING SHOUT TO THE LORD WITHOUT LOOKING AT THE LYRICS

6.Derek Kidner reminds us that Psalm 18 is ultimately Messianic. With that in mind, look at Psalm 18:20-27. How do you see Him here?

7. In Psalm 18:29-50 list what God does that no one else can do.

8. What will you remember from this week’s lesson?

A WOMAN OF WORSHIP: WE BEGIN!

a-girl-reading-a-letter-with-an-old-man-reading-over-her-shoulder-c1767-70 AND SO WE BEGIN! I hope many of you will get A Woman of Worship so you have the musical CD to augment your study, but if you can’t afford it, you’ll still be fine.

First and foremost, we must see how the psalms differ from all the other books of the Bible. In The Bible Jesus Read, Philip Yancey tells how when he was feeling low people would advise him to read the psalms. Yancey said, “I would come upon one of the wintriest psalms and go away frostily depressed.” But then he realized the psalms are not like the other books in the Bible. All the other books are written from God to us. But the psalms are written by the psalmist to God. You are actually reading over the shoulder of someone’s honest prayer journal. There are great highs and great lows in the psalms, because life is “bi-polar.” God wants us to come to Him in our sadness and in our gladness and dialogue with Him. We are His “wife” and He wants intimacy with us. He wants us to share our thoughts and feelings — and then be still, and allow Him to answer. He wants dialogue, for you are His Beloved. Because the psalms are inspired by the Holy Spirit, they also teach us to pray, and we can use them as a primer. Because the psalms were meant to be sung, we will be singing — and that will etch them in your heart so you can sing them and pray them wherever you are.

Jump in and invite your friends. This is a perfect summer study for if you miss some posts, you can still jump right back in. So glad you are with us! You’ll have the week to work through this post. Because there is a song to learn, start learning it today!

1. What is unique about the book of psalms? List everything you can.

2. Meditate on Psalm 5:1-3. What does David say he is doing. Describe how this shows a dialogue.

3. Listen to this musical rendition of Psalm 5:1-3 from Maranatha. It’s an easy one to learn — let us know if you listen to it — and let us know if you learn it!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4g7LKCO_iSI

This is the KJV set to music:

Give ear to my words, O LORD, consider my meditation.

2Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray.

3My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.

4. Now go slowly through Psalm 5:1-3. Look at each phrase. Meditate. Share your meditations.

5. Finally — do what the psalmist did.

Share your meditations, your thoughts, your heart with the Lord in the morning.

Lay your requests before Him and wait in expectation.

Write down any impressions He gives you. You are dialoguing, remember!

I WANT YOUR INPUT ON SUMMER READING

booksBEFORE WE PLUNGE INTO THE PSALMS ON JUNE 1, LET’S HEAR YOUR SUGGESTIONS. I’D LIKE TWO FROM EACH OF YOU, IF POSSIBLE.

1. A lighter summer read for those times when your mind is tired and you simply need to relax and get caught up in a good story — but a story that still has “weight” — not so fluffy it will fly away.

2. A meatier read to restore your soul and give you vision

This morning I had breakfast with my daughter-in-law Julie who is here at my cabin with me with her five, soon to be six, children. She said “I have to have a lighter book to escape from my busy life, and one where I can laugh. But neither do I want to “live” there — I also want to be reading something of depth.” Great model.

I’ve added my new column on my homepage where I tell you what I’m reading now. Give me your input — do you like this or not? I will try to give you some lighter books too — for it is summer and we need some beach reads. I am going to recommend The Help soon — what a great fast read by a new author that is hard to put down yet has some weight.  I’m also preparing for my annual summer get together with two  friends, and we always read a heavier book to discuss. Keeps us accountable. Reading Lewis’s Weight of Glory and can hardly believe I’ve never read it, though I know so many great quotes from it. Transforming. Hard to keep from underlining it all.

Give us names for #1 of books you could not put down, but also impacted you.

Give us names for #2 books that transformed your life and you heartily recommend.

I’m expecting to compile a great list. Name the book and give a sentence as to why you recommend it.

Thanks ahead of time!

Do You Hear The Music?

analise-rejoicing-in-front-of-the-sunset One June 1 we will begin going through some Psalms and I encourage you to get A Woman of Worship — at least for the musical CD in the back with those psalms set to music.

But for now, I want to prepare your hearts with material from some current writing projects. I’m working on a book with the tentative title “Every Love Story Whispers His Name.”

For the next five days, I’d like to contemplate the first love story in Scripture, the first love song — to see if you hear the music. The song of creation.

My granddaughter, Analise, is with me now in Wisconsin. A few summers ago she asked me to take her picture “rejoicing” in front of the sunset. She hears the music.

The Song began at creation.

Both Rob Bell and Tim Keller have powerful sermons explaining that Genesis 1 is not prose, but poetry. If we read it as prose, we misinterpret it.  (Hermeneutics tells us we must interpret Scripture according to its genre, or we will interpret it incorrectly.) Genesis 1 is not asking “How was the world created,” as prose might, “but why was the world created?”

Let’s look together. See if you can hear the music.

1. Poetry is filled with rhythm and repetition. Find some examples of this in Genesis 1.

2. What does Job 38:7 tell us was happening at Creation?

3. There is evidence of the Trinity “dancing in delight.” The early church fathers had a word for this: Perichorises: the choreography of the Trinity. Each member of the Trinity was dancing around the Others, glorifying the Others. Find evidences in Genesis 1 for the Trinity.

4. All of creation was dancing, saying, “Our Father loves us! Our Father says we are good!” Though sin has brought dissonance to the song, you can still hear the music. Brent Curtis wrote:

Someone or something has romanced us from the beginning with creekside singers and pastel sunsets, with the austere majesty of snowcapped mountains and the poignant flames of autumn colors telling us of something—or someone—leaving, with a promise to return…

Step outside right now. Listen, look, take it in. What do you hear? What do you see? Even in the midst of a city, if that is where you live, you should still be able to hear and see the music, the dance — somehow.

5. The Trinity decided to expand the fellowship, the community — so God said, “Let us make man in our image.” Now we are called to join in bringing glory to God. Genesis 1 answers, not “How was the world created — but why?” Is this a new way of looking at Genesis 1 to you?

6. Why was the world created? Why were you created?

7. Share your reflections and applications for today.


WHAT WILL YOU ‘FORGET-ME-NOT’ FROM THE GOD OF ALL COMFORT?

forgetmenot1 Writers call it “the take-a-way.” What is the “take-a-way” of a book?

I am in Wisconsin now, where “Forget-me-nots” blanket the woods in May.

What does God speak to you from The God of All Comfort that He wants you to remember? That He wants you to “Forget-Me-Not?” What two or three sentences might you put in the inside cover of your book?

I’d love to have sentences that were clear, concise, and contained a word picture, like the many we saw in the psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs used in this book, for word pictures stay in your heart.

I’m eager to hear your final “take-a-way.” What do you want to “Forget me not?”

DEFEATING OUR ANCIENT FOE

snake-preparing-attackHERE’S MY PLAN FOR NEXT FEW MONTHS:

FINISH OUR REVIEW OF THE GOD OF ALL COMFORT IN THE NEXT WEEK

GET INPUT ON SOME BOOK IDEAS AND PICK YOUR BRAINS FOR REST OF MAY - I AM PERCOLATING AND WOULD LOVE YOUR THOUGHTS

BEGINNING JUNE 1, I’M THINKING OF GOING THROUGH A WOMAN OF WORSHIP FOR SUMMER STUDIES. IT IS A STUDY OF PSALMS AND IT HAS A MUSICAL CD IN THE BACK WITH PSALMS SET TO MUSIC. IT’S THE KIND OF STUDY YOU CAN POP IN AND OUT OF AND NOT BE LOST. YOU DON’T HAVE TO HAVE THE STUDYGUIDE, BUT IT WOULD ENRICH YOUR STUDY — ESPECIALLY THE CD. SO YOU MAY WANT TO ORDER IT NOW. WE’LL GO SOME NEW PLACES WITH THE PSALMS, AND IT WILL ENRICH YOUR LIFE. I’VE BEEN THINKING SO MUCH ABOUT HOW THE ONLY WAY I CAN GET RID OF THE IDOLS OF MY HEART, OF THE ROTTENNESS FESTERING IN MY SOUL, IS BY FALLING MORE DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH JESUS — AND I KNOW THE PSALMS ARE KEY TO THAT.

What do you think about this plan?

BUT LET’S FINISH OUR REVIEW:

1. Satan wants to cause “attachment disorder.” What does this mean? What is the lie that threatens to undo us?

2. What truth can you tell to your soul about:

A. God’s heart — how do you know God is for you?

B. God’s history — how has He been for you and God’s people in the past?

C. God’s heaven.  The best is yet to come. What do you know about heaven that encourages you?

3. Review the hymns that have helped you the most. For me it is A Mighty Fortress and Be Still My Soul. But bring what has ministered to you and share why.

HOW HAS HE TURNED YOUR ASHES INTO BEAUTY?

beautyforashesWhen we don’t back away from the Lord, the enemy cannot win, for the Lord uses even the hardest things in our lives for good, turning ashes into beauty.

One of the hardest things for me was regret. Regret that I had not stopped speaking, that I ever left Steve during his illness. What could God do with that? It was too late.

But the enemy is a liar. I could walk in repentance. Though I couldn’t be with Steve, there were people I could be with. God gave me an opportunity the year after Steve died with my mother. She was failing, at 93, and I determined to seize days with her. My mother was confined to a wheelchair and had dementia. She couldn’t remember what happened the day before. Each day when I went to see her, she whooped in joy, as if she hadn’t seen me in six months.Mother loved to sing the hymns. We’d sing and sing and sing. But though she knew the hymns, I did not have confidence that she really knew Jesus.

That Easter, shortly after her 93rd birthday, my son J. R. visited her and read her the story of the resurrection. He said, “Do you believe this, Grandma?”

She said, “I don’t know, J. R.”

J.R. was so burdened he went back to our cottage and prayed and prayed, then returned, and shared his simple testimony with his grandmother. He asked, “Have you ever trusted Christ, Grandma?”

She said, “I don’t think I have. Would you help me?”

And J. R. led his grandmother, his grandmother with dementia, to the Lord.

I visited her shortly after that. Because of her dementia, she often forgot Steve had died. One day she asked, “Is Steve coming today?”

“I’m sorry, Mom. Remember? Steve died.”

“Oh!” She said, biting her lip. “Oh!”

Then, after a moment she said, “Dee Dee, I’m going to find you a husband.”

I smiled, wondering about her resources. “Mother, I don’t want another husband,” I paused. “I don’t think I even want a dog.”

She wrinkled her brow, pondering this. She nodded. “I don’t think I do either.”

“Oh Mom, ” I laughed, trying to picture her with either.

Then I squeezed her hand and said, “We have Jesus.”

“Yes,” she smiled, “We do.”

A few months later, Mother’s life was ebbing away. I pleaded with God to let me be with her when she died. The whole amazing story is in The God of All Comfort, but I will tell you He allowed me to be with her.I will never forget the moment when she looked up with a radiant face and the nurse in the room said to me, “Dee — look, the King is coming.” And He came and took her.

When Jesus came, He opened the scroll of Isaiah and read:

“The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me,
Because the LORD has anointed Me
To preach good tidings to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives,
And the opening of the prison to those who are bound;
2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD,
And the day of vengeance of our God;
To comfort all who mourn,
3 To console those who mourn in Zion,
To give them beauty for ashes,
The oil of joy for mourning,
The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness;
That they may be called trees of righteousness,
The planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified.”

1. Meditate on the above, going slowly, reading as a lover reads, contemplating the images. What are some of the ways Jesus can turn our ashes into beauty? What do you see in this passage?

2. Do you have regrets? Though you cannot undo the past, how can you walk in repentance now?

3. Give an example of how Jesus is turning your ashes into beauty.

Happy Mother’s Day to every physical and spiritual mother. And Happy Mother’s Day, Mother! It gives me enormous joy to know you are with Jesus, and filled with all that is beautiful.

REVIEW of The God of All Comfort: THE LAMENT

lamentWhether you have been going through The God of All Comfort with us from the beginning or joined us somewhere along the way, there is great value in review. If you have friends in fresh pain, invite them to join in — if not as participants, as readers. We’ll spend a few weeks in review.

Two questions prevail in the midst of suffering. “Why did this happen?” And, “How can I possibly get through this?” For the most part, The God of All Comfort addresses the second. You are in enormous pain. How will you make it?

We began with learning how to lament, as God gives us permission to do. This drawing by Andrew Dunn illustrates the grief we feel, the darkness and birds of prey around us, yet also the promise of rising hope. You can make it through the river of grief, and the lament is the tool God gives you to help you.

The most important thing to remember is that Satan wants you to back up from God, who is your only hope. The lament helps you not to back up.

1. Articulate what you have learned about the value of the lament, either from The God of All Comfort or the psalms themselves.

2.  Do you remember the most common metaphor the psalmist uses for how he feels? (If not, you can find it in Psalm 18:4-5; Psalm 42:7 and in many of the hymns we have studied. Our closing hymn, What Wondrous Love, has it as well.) How does the fact that God understands this feeling help you?

3.  A lament classically has three parts — the lament, the turn, and the remembrance of God’s character. Give an example from the psalms, or even from your own prayer journal.

4.  There are also times when there is no turn, as in Heman’s Cry of Darkness in Psalm 88. How does he close his psalm? What does it mean to you that we can be free to be this honest with God?

5.  How did Jesus lament on the cross?

6 Comment on a lamenting song like Blessed Be Thy Name or Come Lift Up Your Sorrows or one we’ve studied.

7. Are you incorporating the lament more into your prayer life? If so, how?